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To my Nephew Richard who has taught me....... - that everything tastes better with hot sauce. - that classic movies are “Napoleon Dynamite” and “Elf”. - that a hot waffle is best eaten just before the last run at Stratton. - that there is no such thing as a bad “Curb Your Enthusiasm” Episode. - that Beaver Tails taste better with Nutella than just Cinnamon (still out for debate) - that a “Half Pipe” is not something we smoked out of in College. - that you have to take 5 steps in on your Dad’s serve. (kinda new that one..) - and that strength and courage come at any age. You continue to teach me new things each day. Love You, Auntie Gina (6/05/06)

Richard, Rich and Beth and Stefanacci Clan I dont know why things happen to children especially as I am a Pediatrician who has cared for kids and their families during times of struggles and calamity. I know that what has happened to kids often brings me to tears and has made me a more sensitive doctor. What Richard is enduring is obviously beyond that of any comprehension. Richard brings what is best about children: his energy, spirit and motivation for reaching his goal for cure. From the days when we met at Tiger Shulman, Richard was called “Lightning”, I knew that we would be friends. Elyse and I, Nate and Becca love you all, your passion and your spirits.We know that Richard will “go for the goal and be cured”. And for him and you all, we are there. Randall Jarrell has said: “One of the most obvious facts about grown-ups to a child is that they have forgotten what it is like to be a child”. No one better expresses the passion of childhood than Richard Stefanacci. Love, The Mulberg Family (6/6/06)

Dear Stefanacci’s: We are proud to be “Family” and you make our lives “rich”er. We are with you on this “long, strange trip” and we will reach our goal - a healthy Richard. Rich, you should save all your daily breads to compile in a book. You are so warm and fuzzy on paper! Love you all, the Kellehers. (6/6/06)

Richard: My name is Casey and I have been a Housing Director at Woodward Camp for 5 years (going into my 6th summer as Housing Director). At Woodward, as you know, all of the staff and campers are part of the large Woodward Family!! I spoke with Erin Benedetto (or should I say that she talked to me- I didn’t get to say very much) and she filled me in on everything that is going on with you at home. Many staff members and counselors and campers are wearing their black “Go 4 the goal” bracelets and sending positive energy and prayers in your direction. I want you to know, along with my partner in Housing, Abby, that you will always have a place at Woodward!! And as long as you want to come back are feeling up to it, we will find you a nice, comfortable place to stay... but we’ll make your dad sleep in the mini cabin (ha ha... just kidding). Remember that your Woodward Family is pulling for you 150% and can’t wait to see you rolling around camp again!! Lots of love and hugs!!! Casey Aivazian - Woodward Camp Housing Director (6/6/06)

To my Nephew and Godson - I’m proud of the way you have been handling things, the courage you have demomstrated and the heart you have shown. I know its not suppose to work this way but you’re my hero. I wish I could be there to tell you that myself, but I promise next week I’ll come over with more Hooters wings. Maybe I can get a waitress to come to the house and serve us since I can’t get Anut Donna to wear one of the outfits. Continue to “Go 4 the Goal,” and please let me know if you need anything. PS. The Mets are still in 1st place. Love, Uncle Mark (6/6/06) Just some thoughts to describe your features that will get you to achieve your goal - Giving When I think of you I think of the hug you give me every time I see you. It’s a great hug that makes me feel you are really glad to see me. It may seem like such a small thing but to this old aunt it means a lot coming from one so young. So I am sending a hug to you and a thank you. Openness You are willing to try new things, go new places without fear. No matter what comes your way you plunge in with a great attitude and plenty of grace. You are an inspiration and you give us all courage just being around you. Athleticism The way you take any sport and make it your own. The way you used to skate around the old house when you first started... falling then getting back up. I love watching you in the water on the boogie board and the skimmer, and I can’t wait to see you surf. Tennis, golf whatever you try you persevere until you master it. Just awesome! Love Everyone is sending their love because you are such a good kid and your family is strong and loving and we know you all have the strength and grace to get through this. Aunt Barb (6/6/06)

To my nephew Richard, When you work in a job where everyone claims to be tougher than the next guy, and it’s all about being macho you kind of get immune to it all. But in this short time you have proven what the words “tough” and “guts” really mean. To cherish your family and friends, and to remember that a job is just a job, and that there is nothing more important than family. I can’t wait to beat you in basketball again and play you in X Box (I’m getting better). Stay strong and remember that your always in our thoughts and prayers and you’ll be breaking out those new golf clubs real soon. Love you lots and I’ll see you soon, Uncle Chris (6/7/06) Rich, I know deep down in my heart that your going fight this all the way. And I’m proud to know you and have you come to Belmar with Nick Kelleher a few times. I’m wearing your “GO FOR THE GOAL BRACELET “ with knowing that your going to beat this 100%. Not only are you in my prayers but the whole Graney family’s prayers as well. Keep that smile on your face. Colleen Graney (6/7/06)

Richard, I remember the day you were born. I was at Great Adventure when I got the call. I must say though the thrill of hearing of your arrival certainly rivaled that of the best roller coaster in the world... From that day forward we have all looked up to you in some way as the first nephew, the first grandson, the first on... With all of those expectations on you, you would think who could live up? Well you my dear have done more than live up, but have more than surpassed all of our wishes and dreams. You are a role model for all of your younger siblings and cousins as well as your older Parents, Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles... You exceed all our our expectations everyday and I feel lucky to have you in my life yesterday, today, tomorrow and everyday forward... I KNOW you will get through this with the amazing attitude you have taken on to this battle ahead. We are all here by your side for every step of the way for as much or as little as you want us to be... Love you Richard. Aunt Kim (6/8/06)

Hi Richard, You and your family are in our daily thoughts and prayers. I know Richard III doesn’t know his cousins very well but hopefully one day they can all catch up in good heath and spirits. George III (Georgie), 11 years old, has taken a very strong interest in being a lacrosse goalie. Over this past Memorial Day weekend, I took him and the family to the NCAA lacrosse tournament in Philly. As I sat down at the stadium, I was thinking of Richard III because I believe it is not very far from CHOP. I started to read the program and the first article I read was “Battling Back” about a lacrosse student athletes (goalie) returnng to the same after fighting cancer. It read: Lacrosse is a fast paced, physical game that requires a great deal of intelligence, strength, skill, and stamina. But unfortunately, a growing number of student athletes are witnessing that, in lacrosse just as in so many sports, sometimes the most courageous battles take place off the field. “The word cancer is shocking and you never think you are going to hear it directed at you,” said Kyle Miller, a senior goaltender on the Cornell men’s lacrosse team. “When I was told that I had cancer, it was pretty devastating to me and my family.” “I remember having my mom with me and we had to call my dad,” Miller said. “I could hear his strength on the phone. He told me we would do whatever needed to be done and that we would get through it together.” During his sophomore year, Miller began to experience some discomfort in his right leg that he initially dismissed as shin splints. But, when the pain escalated significantly after a hard fall during indoor winter lacrosse that year, he realized the problem was more serious. I thought I may have a torn ACL, he said. But when I had a MRI done, we realized it was much worse. Miller was diagnosed with an osteosarcoma. As soon as I found out what it was, I went on the internet and saw many pictures of people with amputations. My doctor said that I may need an amputation but even if I didn’t I would walk with a cane and I would definitely not be able to play sports again. That news did not sit too well with Miller. The two time All New England Lacrosse selection in high school began three months of chemotherapy in Feb. 2003, four days after his initial diagnosis. Following surgery that May, he endured three more months of chemo but managed to return to Cornell the following semester. Throughout the treatments, Miller found inspiration from his teammates, coaches, and family members. “My support system refused to let me getdown,” he said. “I was constantly getting calls from my teammates and my coach, and I listened to their games through my computer as a way of staying in touch with the team.” My brother knew I was a huge Toronto Maple Leafs fan so he would come down and pick me up and take to to the games. The effort made by Miller’s older brother, Brandon, was perhaps more significant that he will ever know. Brandon, who plays professional lacrosse for the San Jose Stealth, successfully fought off cancer in his tailbone when he was two years old. “He was definitely influencial in my recovery,” Kyle said, “I figure if a two year old could do it, then so could I.” “When you are going through what I did, you don’t want to be too reliant on people, but at the same time, you appreciate the support your friends and family give to you, especially when you are down and out.” However, Miller never did consider himself to be completely down and out. In fact, after returning to school, he also returned as the lacrosse team as the team manager. He yearned to play again and after months of rehabilitating himself, Miller finally rejoined his teammates and saw his first on-field action in two years on March 17, 2005. After being reinstated, Miller returned to the Cornell lax team as a goalie for the 2006 campaign and even though he still must maintain his physical therapy, the future looks very promising for the native on Ontario, who has been chosen to represent Team Canada in the 2006 World Championships.” “I have one more test to pass and if the test comes back clean, they will consider me cured,” he said. “When that happens, I think I am going to have a party.” To Richard III - may God bless you and give you the strength and the courage to overcome this temporary set back. You have a tremendous family and friend support. We are thinking of you and praying for you. God bless, The Pecks (Claire, Georgie, Morgan, Aunt Ellen, and Uncle George)

Dear Stefanacci’s, Thank you so much for “daily bread”..It would’ve been harder to open my day without it. Richard, i’m so proud of you for being such a strong young man - for being you. Recently, i called home (Romania) and talked to my 7 year old nephew (Marinica) who lives in a very small, village in Transylvania region. He had something to tell me that nobody knows, not even him mother. And so he called it “our secret”. After school is over, Marinica has to walk about 1 mile over the hills to get to his family farm where he helps his father and other shepherds care for about 300 + sheep. There’s is something new about Marinica’s trip now. This 7 year old boy no longer walks alone over these heels. He strongly believes that Richard will- reach his gaol -because God listens to his daily prayers on his was to the farm. Thank you Marinica and thank you everybody Richard- we all love you Familia Cheregi

Richard - I made up a little poem on the beach while I was thinking of you and all of the awesome things that you do! (It’s supposed to spell out your name! Totally gay teacher thing to do I know!) R...Really phenom at every “extreme sport”! I...Isn’t scared to try anything once! C...Chills with his friends on the Belmar Beach (everyone sends love). H...Has incredible praents who are so proud of you...your Dad told me stories last summer of whe he was the “Den Dad” at your estreme camp - I think he was most proud of your totally independent spirit! A...A fantastic brother, son, grandson, cousin, nephew, and friend to everyone! R...Rides waves better tha most (my nephew Stephen said to write that one)! D...Doesen’t give up! I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you every day. My whole family sends love ad goodness your way! Love Geralyn Gerard (Aunt Gina’s friend)

Dear Richard - I remember when you were born. I met you and wrestled with you several times when your Grandparents(Stefanacci) had a house in Point Pleasant. I met your Uncle Chris in college and was fortunate to become friends with his parents, brothers and Gina. Once Chris called to inform me of your temporary setback in life, I knew that your Aunts, Uncles and extended family would rise above this and bring you your health back. I have never met a family like yours and I know you have that character, strength, determination and will to get past this. Your persistence is an inspiration for all of us and you have become a constant thought in my nightly prayers to my sons. Everynight I close our prayers with “and please bring our friend Richard the strength to achieve and beat this disease” At first my sons would ask, who is Richard? , now they say, don’t forget about Richard. Who you are is a great example of who I want my sons to be. Thank you and God bless you. Gary Kane

Dear skate-boarding, glasses-wearing, hipster nephew once removed, Hey there. It’s your world-traveling, contact-lens-wearing hipster (okay, maybe not) aunt-once-removed from California (aka John’s sister). I was in the airport, about to leave for India, when I heard you were sick. How are you doing? I tried to send you good vibes from the Himalayas in India and even burned some incense for you, so I hope it helped. : ) In case you haven’t heard much about the Himalayas, it’s the highest mountain range in the world and home to the famous Mt. Everest (which I didn’t go anywhere near). There are Himalayas in India and Nepal, and I was on the India side, hiking and camping for two weeks. Have you ever gone hiking and camping? Do you have any interest in it? If you do, let me know, and I’ll take you and all the cousins on an outdoor adventure sometime. In the Himalayas, we drank our water directly from a river (not even any filtering), and trekked between 6 and 12 hours a day. There were tons of waterfalls and snow capped mountains, and we didn’t see any leopards or bears, but we definitely saw their droppings (I’m very glad they kept themselves hidden - I’m okay with bugs but I’m not so keen on bears and leopards). If you want to see photos of my trek, there are a bunch at http://s71.photobucket.com/albums/i150/tirthan2006/ - just click on any of the photo albums (Sara’s and Rika’s are the best). Well, Richard, I’m happy to keep entertaining you with emails if you’d like, so just let me know. I assume being in the hospital must be miserable and boring, so even an email from a 39-year-old psuedo aunt might be welcome. Stay strong, and I hope to see you out in Montauk very soon. Much love, Andrea Buffa

Dear Rich and Beth; As I write this I realize that what I’m about to write isn’t special, I have no magic words, it’s basically a collection of thoughts and observations many of which you have already heard and know. I also know that I’m writing this more for me than anyone else. I was in New York at a meeting when I heard the news, and didn’t process it right away. It wasn’t until I was driving home alone that it hit me and the only thing that I could think to do to help was to call Father Jon. The next day at the hospital was, well I don’t have to tell you, seeing Richard that way broke everyone’s heart. I kept thinking and praying the same thing, for God to give Richard the strength and courage to handle what he was about to go through. I kept my prayers short, “lets get him through the first treatment and get him home.” I remember the teary eyed expressions on the everyone’s faces, the fear, the total disbelief, our inability to help Richard or either of you and I wondered to myself if this group would ever smile or laugh again. As the days passed, and Richard got through his first treatment, and as you guys started to develop your new sense of “normal,” the smiles and the laughter returned, granted they were forced at first, but eventually became more real. And Richard began to show strength and courage beyond his years. I realized that our ups and downs, smiles and ability to laugh is tied, and will continue to be tied until our goal is reached, to Richard’s ups and downs, smiles and laughter. Richard has always been everyone’s favorite, it’s partly because he was born first, but also because there is something special about him that makes him the favorite grandson, nephew, and cousin. I, like everyone else in his life would love to be his hero, to be able to take this challenge away from him and take it on myself, but I know that it doesn’t work that way, so for now he has to be my hero. I couldn’t love him more if he was my own son. Obviously it goes without saying that Donna and I are here 24/7 for Richard, you and your family. Please don’t hesitate to call us at any time and for anything. Lastly, let me just say thank you for allowing me and my family to take this journey with Richard and your family. It would be easy at a time like this to close ranks and shut people out, but you have opened your hearts and home and have allowed us in. Love, Mark

Hi, My name is Dee Dee Scherer. I am Brent and Matt’s mom. Brent and Matt are friends of Richie. They have been meeting off and on at Skateparks ... X- games Skatepark ( I think it’s now called Skatepark of Philly ) and Boarderline. They have visited each other’s homes ... sharing their “TURF”. They met a few years ago at Woodward and have kept in touch. They have shared the same cabin for SEVERAL years. I’m not sure if I am right ..... but I think it’s been maybe 4 or 5 yrs. I can’t ask the boys right now ... they are at Woodward. They really miss Richie ... They say Woodward is not the same without him. They feel something is missing.... and Yes ... there is .... it’s Richie. His spirit is in their hearts though. They tell me everyone is asking how he is doing. The “Go for the Goal “ bracelets are on many wrists and Richie is on their minds ..... sending positive energy his way !!!! I want to share a few pictures ..... The boys doing what they love ..... skating. They are from Matt’s birthday party Nov. 2005 at Boarderline. Richie Stay Strong ...... You have a lot of skating to do !!!! Brent and Matt look forward to the next time they can hang out with you. Our Prayers, Thoughts and Positive Energy from the Scherer Family, Allentown Pa are with you.

Hi Rich...this is cousin Karen Mazzola here sending you love, hugs and prayerful thoughts and above all positive energy! My 9th grade English class has been praying for Richard and sending him their positive energy... they keep calling him a Freedom Fighter.. free from cancer! I put a picture of him in my classroom and all the kids touch it and think positive thoughts when they leave my room to begin their day. I mentioned to Mark that I was hoping to get 26 reminder bands for my class before school gets out, but I guess he forgot to mention that to you. No worries, maybe you can spare three for me, Christopher and Adam. I follow the website daily and I would love to help you with the foundation to bring important services to those less fortunate than ourselves. Rich, there is not a day that goes by that I don’t think of you and your family and this challenge that your son has endured so stoically... he has the strength of Grandma Jean Stefanacci in him, because as much as she may have suffered she never let us know that she was in pain. All of his angels in heaven are flocking to carry Richard through this challenge - if you were to think of all our relatives alone, well that is some group... you have Uncle Russell making deals with the local movie producer to get Rich on camera.. you have Aunt Mary and Uncle Frankie trying to keep Uncle Russ in line.. Aunt Lil and Uncle Dave will send him hints to kick butt playing poker, as well Grandpa Stefanacci...not to mention the love of Grandma Jo and Grandma Jean...Uncle Emil will give him the strength to laugh and face his challenges with a sense of humor and maturity...not to mention the countless others who will embrace all of us to get through this. Although the distance and time has pulled us apart, you will always be “my family” the family that I fondly look back to and remember the amazing years growing up at 409 Edgemont. The fun, the laughter and those crazy variety shows we use to perform... Anyway, may the memories of those days turn into prayers and well wishes for your first born son, and may the strength of his families’ love carry him through this fight to freedom.. free and cured! Love and hugs to all, Karen

Dear Richard, You don’t know us but my husband works for your Grandpa David on his property in New Mexico. Quite a few of us are wearing your Go 4 The Goal braclet. We are proud to wear these and pray for you and your family daily. I have had a personal experince with God helping a child overcome such overwhelming odds. My son was very sick and God touched him and his family. So with prayer all things are possible. I continue to believe that God will touch your live and give you the strength to fight this battle. We as a family are looking forward to the day that we will meet you in person when you come to visit your Grandma Ann & Grandpa David at his place in New Mexico. We thank you for touching our lives here. I enjoy reading about you and your family and keeping up with you. May God Bless you and your family and know that we support you from afar. Love Jim & Joy Reed, Traci & Chad Smith, Kevin, Catherine, Tyler, & Kelsey Powers

You can image our surprise when we received the bracelets. It’s amazing how easy it is to lose touch with our closest friends. But, you guys are always in our thoughts. Who can forget our first trip to disney and our first stop was about 45 minutes out. We arrived 4 in the morning and somehow Beth was able to check us in early! Richard was Danny’s first friend. There were never two different type of boys. Richard the athlete and Danny the imaginative. Danny eating everything is site and Richard’s only concern was playing outside. We may be physically far away, but mentally you are always in our hearts. Richard, you are the strongest kid we know and will get thru this. We all miss you and your family and hope to see you soon. Love, Bridget, Nick, Kristyn & Danny. ps...your bracelets will be making a trip to Ireland. It’s our 20th anniversary.

As I came into the office this morning, Mary Lou, my father’s administrator, approached me with some incredible information ! Remember I told you that I lit a candle for Richard , III for the Relay For Life event this past weekend? Well, she told me that there were over 10,000 candles lit for survivors, fighters, and remembrances... as you know the weather was not ideal, to say the least... Mary Lou then proceeded to tell me that almost all of the candles were extinguished from the heavy rainfall.... only 49 stayed lit through the close of the Relay on Sunday ... Richard’s candle stayed lit ! I was so excited to hear that news. She also gave me the bag which has his name labeled .... I’m saving it . If you would like it just let me know. I had to share this great info with you... hopefully it will mean all good things... you know my thoughts and prayers are with the Stefancci’s and! your f amily. It was so great talking to you -- now it’s time to see each other ... I can’t believe a year has passed already ! I love all the pictures, thanks for sending them . I love you and I’ll talk to you soon, Ree

My name is Dana. I am Jim Reeds daughter who works with David Glew at his ranch in New Mexico. I have not had the opportunity to meet David or Ann when I have been down there for a visit. I live in Colorado Springs, Colorado but spent a lot of my childhood on that land. The work they have done to make it their own is admirable and shows me where there heart is. My great grandparents would be so thrilled. My Dad really loves the Glew’s and thats no easy feat for a grumpy old red neck (by his own admission). The Glews have given my Dad more than they know. Someday I hope to tell them in person. My Dad called me in tears just after David told him what was going on with our son Richard. I was also brought to tears, having 3 kids of my own I found myself wondering what it must be like for you. I admire your strength. I dont have a lot of wisdom in my 32 years, or any really earth shaking advice. What I do have is the ability to lift you up in prayer and ask people I know to do the same. The power of prayer has changed my life and the love that we share as mothers is a loud voice in the big mans office. Our family (Shawn, Lydia, Julia and Drew) is praying daily for strength for Richard and all of you, for wisdom for his doctors and staff, and for healing for Richard. He sounds like a great kid and I read your updates every day. You are all in my heart and know that you are doing great things for all kids. What a great foundation you have begun. Thank you for blessing others by sharing your lives and allowing us to be a part in supporting Richards goal to be healthy. I have placed a prayer out there through http://www.worldprayerteam.org who also believe in the power of prayer. Your family has been a blessing to my Dad and I hope his family can be a blessing to yours. Dana Mehl

Dear Beth and Richard, I have been looking for the right words to express our deep feelings and concern for you and your son Richard. When we first heard the news I fell apart and with help of my prayers I moved on to positive thinking.Being such a distance,how could I help? Every day at 6am I say my rosary for him and will continue untill he reaches his Goal. Life has a funny way of bringing family together, that tell me how very,very special Richard is and I know he will reach his Goal. We do have dear friends by the name of Madeline and Lenny Abramson who donated a building to CHOP infact her name is on it, well I called her and told her about Richard and in a few days later she called me back and said”he is in the best hands”, and also said”anytime your nephew is not satisfied I should call her”. Beth you are a super women I look forward to your daily up-date every morning and you give that up beat feeling, continue what you are doing you are leading a great team. RG you alway said you want to take your children to show them where you spend your summer and where you started the Artchie Club well the invitation is open you name the time and I will have all the Club members here. God Bless you and your family, Love Aunt Jean and Uncle Gus

My name is Dee Dee Scherer. I am Brent and Matt’s mom. Brent and Matt are friends of Richie. They have been meeting off and on at Skateparks ... X- games Skatepark ( I think it’s now called Skatepark of Philly ) and Boarderline. They have visited each other’s homes ... sharing their “TURF”. They met a few years ago at Woodward and have kept in touch. They have shared the same cabin for SEVERAL years. I’m not sure if I am right ..... but I think it’s been maybe 4 or 5 yrs. I can’t ask the boys right now ... they are at Woodward. They really miss Richie ... They say Woodward is not the same without him. They feel something is missing.... and Yes ... there is .... it’s Richie. His spirit is in their hearts though. They tell me everyone is asking how he is doing. The “Go for the Goal “ bracelets are on many wrists and Richie is on their minds ..... sending positive energy his way !!!! I want to share a few pictures ..... The boys doing what they love ..... skating. They are from Matt’s birthday party Nov. 2005 at Boarderline. Richie Stay Strong ...... You have a lot of skating to do !!!! Brent and Matt look forward to the next time they can hang out with you.Our Prayers, Thoughts and Positive Energy from the Scherer Family, Allentown Pa are with you.

My name is Dawn Sandomeno and I have a summer house with my husband and three boys in Belmar up the street from Barbara and Peter Finelli. Barb told us about Richard, the website and “go for the goal”. I am part of a group in Basking Ridge called Heartworks and passed on Richards story to them. After spending time reading the website it became clear that the goal for a healthy Richard will be achieved through positive energy. With you family’s goal in mind, Heartworks has put together a Prayer Flag, (losely based on the ancient Tibetan Prayer Flag) for Richard. The flags were made by the Mothers in Heartworks and their children. We hope that your family can hang this somewhere, maybe even Richard’s teen lounge so that he can see and feel all of the positive messages, prayers and special wishes we have for him and your family. If it is okay to go ahead and send it can you let me know where to address the package, I can also give it to Barbara Finelli when I go down to Belmar on July 30th. All our love to you and your family, Dawn Sandomeno Just a brief note from a stranger and many others at Forest Hill Healthcare Center.We work for your grandfather, Dr. Stefanacci (does it narrow it down? J), and wanted you to know WE’RE ROOTING FOR YOU! As I write you this email, we are preparing the Forest Hill HealthCare Center “GO-4-THE-GOAL” pot (our version of a baby shower wishing well J). Anyway, hopefully it’ll be ready to send to you soon. In the meanwhile, please know our prayers and well wishes are with you and your family. Stay strong. Sincerely, Norma Herrera & FHHC Gang

I have known your uncle, Randy, (or “Rando” as he was known to us in Seattle), for almost 20 years. In that time I have seen him go from being a post-college, sloppy, unfocused frat-boy with a beater car to a mid-career, sloppy, unfocused frat-boy with a nice car. Along the way, I have also watched him grow as a person. He has grown so much as a person that he is now almost two people - two large people. Is that why some, I couldn’t say who, refer to him as “Marlon Rando”? It has been amazing to watch your uncle scale the heights of the music industry, especially since scaling heights generally requires that one abandon the reclining position and the remote control. Some say that Randy is unable to focus and complete the task at hand. I say nay. I have witnessed him lock his eyes like laser guided missiles on a menu and then successfully communicate his order to the server without once looking up at the TV! Of course the TV was off at the time, but why split hairs? I think I paid for that meal, too. All of us in Seattle are thrilled and excited to have Rando come home. In fact, one of the take out restaurants on the east-side is unveiling a bronze bust of Randy in the parking lot. There goes the bus parking. Your uncle has touched me with his sincere and unrelenting campaign to lift your spirits and restore your health. I am currently appearing in a community theater production of Disney’s “Beauty and the Beast.” Our show opens tomorrow. Please know that at 7:30 pm west coast time, I will be thinking of you and your family and dedicating 100% of my performance to you. I have come to learn that there is magic out there and I am sending some your way. All the best - Jim Anderson

Words cannot describe the empty pit in my stomach after reading your email. With Joseph I slept in a chair next to him for many weeks and the nights that I could not sleep I wondered the halls thinking how lucky we were. We had a very good experience at chop. they are amazing their and they helped us. I hope they can do the same for you that is an amazing place doing work their for children. You are in the best place. Your grandson is a brave boy, it is hard for me to keep from crying for you because all I see are those nights with these little angles sleeping quietly at night and realizing how selfish a world we live in. Please send dave my love as I told joseph it is hard to believe that it is harder to watch and constantly wish that it was you and not your son or grandson. So many thoughts going through my mind last night. How you got your energy to remember to call Deanne given what you are going through. When josh told me that if was one of her dearest friends and I answered the phone if you where their you would have seen an ear to ear smile on my face just to hear your voice it brought back many good memories. Then to read the e-mail last night just broke my heart If you need anything any company I would do anything even make a deliver in philly to bring you nourishment that is what friends can do. I am not kidding let me know when I can bring you and the family lunch at chop. Please keep in touch it helps to have friends to hug and cry with. I love dave and you please keep in touch when you have the energy I will understand if you do not have time but I will always be thinking of you and will keep track of the web site. Susan was depressed last night after reading the email we both love you for all you have done for us. all my love Mark

I just heard from Jean-Pierre Geronimi today about your son, Richard. I was just on the ‘Go for the Goal’ website and was so moved by the postive energy and perspective it provided. I want you to know that I strongly believe in the Power of Prayer, which I try and practice each and every day. Please know that your son Richard and your entire family will be in my prayers from this point on. I have not ever worn wristbands before, but would gladly wear one for this cause. As well, I would like to get four additional ones for my wife and three daughters. Warmly, Matt Cullen

I’m writing you today to ask a favor as a friend, family member, or colleague whom I value. As some of you receiving this may already know, my young nephew Richard Stefanacci has been diagnosed with Ewing’s Sarcoma. This is a rare, and extremely challenging form of cancer that Richard is facing with extraordinary courage and determination. I know that many of you have been touched by challenges such as this to friends and family members, and can relate to what our family is facing at this time. My heart goes out to you, and hope that you have a success story to reflect upon. I don’t look today for sympathy. Not for auction items or donations. I ask, quite simply, that you take a minute after reading this note to pass along a bit of yourself to the email address below, or simply reply to this note and I will forward. Richard’s brothers and sisters have created a website to keep Richard and his friends and family informed, uplifted, inspired, determined and focused on helping Richard fight this disease. You can view it at http://www.go-for-the-goal.com/home.html. If you could spare a moment of your time to share a success story, a word of encouragement to Richard, a funny story about his Grandfather (Dave Glew) who many of you worked with, another about his idiot Uncle Randy, anything your fingers can tap out, I would be much obliged. This site is a place where Richard, family and friends can go daily to reflect and celebrate the life we’re lucky enough to share. In addition, we are all fortunate enough to be in a business that is full of role models. Talented people, whether they be athletes, artists, executives, educators, volunteers, doctors, lawyers, or inspirational survivors of this journey we call life. If you could pass along the address to any of these people you are associated with, and encourage them to take a quick minute to type out an email to Richard we would appreciate it more than you’ll ever know. Again, we ask not for your sympathy, but for your inspiration as Richard fights the good fight. Richard’s courage, along with the extraordinary love, support and grace of his parents Beth and Rich, have focused our family in a way that I did not know existed before this challenge. As Beth notes in the website reflecting on friendship, “you can’t pick your family, you can pick your friends”. I’ve written this note to you, my friends. I’m sure there may be days where you haven’t been that entertained with the notion of being my friend, I just hope today isn’t one of them....Thanks for taking the time to read this note, I sincerely appreciate it, and look forward to your reply and inspiration for Richard. Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers xo Randy

Dude, What a great story. Young Tyler is lucky to have parents like you and your lovely wife. Despite your inexplicable love for Springsteen.....Sounds like Tyler is going to have a long, happy, healthy and productive life, something we all wish for all of our children and families. Thanks for a great contribution to our little online community.Let’s hook up the next time I’m in NYC. cheers, rji Even though I have not had the pleasure of meeting Richard or the pleasure of working with Dave, I want you and your family to know that my wife, three children and I share your thoughts and best wishes. A story to share....My wife and I tried for almost two years to have children (yes, using all the drugs and Drs we could find). Finally after a miscarriage we were blessed with the news we were having twins. At the 20 week sonogram one of the nurses saw “an abnormality” in the heart chamber with one of the twins. Obviously, we were quite distraught. Later that day we had an emergency appointment with the cardiology team and they informed us that one of the twins had a unique abnormality and it would require us to abort the one baby. We also knew that if we aborted one baby there was a VERY likely chance we would lose the other twin. While we were waiting for the final doctor that day a nurse came over to us and said we should see a specialist at another hospital, as she was the best in the world with in vitro cardiology. While my wife was crying I made a call to this doctor and was lucky enough to get an appointment first thing the next morning.After a night with no sleep and a lot of crying we saw the new doctor. After the exam, she very calmly said our twin has something called transposition of the great arteries, a very rare case when the main arteries in the heart are backwards. She went on to say that there was no reason to abort, that the twin would require surgery in the first few days of his life to switch his arteries and that he had a 98% chance of success. In fact, the doctor who invented this surgery was at the same hospital we were planning on delivering. As the weeks passed my wife was monitored by the doctor. One night I got a call at work from my wife saying the doctor wanted to speak to both of us. My heart dropped, did not know what to expect. The doctor told us after further review of our son (as he was getting bigger the sonograms became easier to see) that what he has is Corrected Transposition, which basically meant the heart was functioning fine, but was backwards. This is extremely rare and was first detected about 20 years ago in autopsy of a 70 year old man who died (not related to his heart). This meant he would not need surgery and with monitoring could be perfectly fine. During the process we also learned that my son had a hole in his heart, which is quite common, but would need closing as he got older. My son is 6 years old and last March he had open heart surgery to close his hole in his heart. If we listened to that first doctor and did not believe our outlook would have been a lot different. Tyler Max Stimmel is a normal six year old boy who loves playing sports, swimming and his twin brother and little sister. Although his “special line” will always be a reminder of the turmoil we went through, there is not a day that goes by that we don’t feel fortunate. I don’t want to run on about us, but I hope this provides a small slice of inspiration as it does for me each and every day. Needless to say, if there is anything else we can do to help you and your family, consider it done. Best wishes, Lee

So Dave Glew is the new prez of Epic and he invites dept heads to his NYC apartment for an XMAS gathering. I show up and am the first person there- so Anne gives me a tour of the place and shows me the new wall safe they installed in Daves closet. She sez hey try to open that thing-impossible- and lets me fiddle with it-well I immediately open it and she realizes she forgot to lock it. Oops. So later during the party I am know giving tours since Anne has made me the tour guide-here is the fridge in the bedroom-here is Daves bedroom popcorn popper etc and oh here is the new safe they installed in Daves closet-now you gotta picture me giving 3 or 4 peeps a tour-we r all in Daves closet I go hey no one can break into this thing and Ive got my ear up to the safe turning the dial and listening to the tumblers and in walks Dave Glew everyone freaks except I cant see him since my back is to everyone-Im chatting away pretending to be Houdini and I feel an air of silence-I turn around and Dave sez Hi Harv what r u doing? I said well Anne just showed me your new wall safe and I was giving a tour and and and-long story short we laughed but the bedroom became off limits for the tour. Humiliating-embarrassing-boy was my face red but we laughed ! This Jew then proceeded downstairs and ate his first real Xmas ham. MMMMMMMMMM delicious! Live each day and laugh!

Let me share something that I think will do your heart good. Over the last 48 hours you have been very much on my mind and this was before receiving your email - so now I know why.

As I am sure you know, I am a Christian, having called out to Jesus to save me 20 years ago when I was at CBS Records. So the fact that God brought you to my mind again demonstrates His love and concern for us all. Please be assured of my ongoing prayers for you and your family. Richard looks like an outstanding young man and I am certain that God is holding him safely in the palm of His hand. Much love to you and your family. Murray

Richard, I’m just getting to know your very wise and funny, Uncle Randy. He kind of falls into that description of fondness with us all over here in UK at Arctic Monkeys HQ. I am sure you have many notes and messages of best wishes, be as brave as you can and we wish you , your family and friends our love and best wishes. Kind Regards Geoff(manager) Alex,Jamie,Matt and Nick

I’m sending this little note to you...to forward on to Richard, for me. He really looks like the great guy, that you’ve spoken about. I’ll keep the positive vibes going for him, and the entire family. cheers....Dave

I’m Dave Platel from Toronto, Canada. I’m good friends with your Uncle Randy, Aunt Kim and Grandma Ann and Grandpa Dave....I know them both from my long time working with Celine Dion. I’ve heard so much about you these past few weeks, that I feel that I know you a little bit. Uncle Randy sent me a photo of you taming a wave on your surfboard, and it’s easy to know why people say one picture is worth a thousand words. In that photo, I see the spirit, the determination and the adventure that they talk about when they describe you. Just in the way you’re keeping your balance with your arms and legs, I can see your focus....I can see the concentration in your eyes as you maneuver through the current. I can tell you’re an natural athlete...with a pretty strong will. Yes, I can see all of that, from the one photo! Everyone around you is rallying on your behalf. In doing so, they’re all looking up to you....for strength and courage, because they see how much you possess. Even though you’re the one going through the ordeal, they draw their strength from you....from your “hold-nothing-back, go for it” attitude. Everyone loves a winner, and you’ve obviously inspired your entire family(who are amazing, by the way!) with your courage and your winning ways. Good for you and keep up the great spirit and positive vibes. The world is made up of many strangers(like you and I being strangers), but we are all ONE! So, I’m with you in this journey...I’m Going 4 the Goal!! Count me in! talk to ya later, Dave

A friend of mine recently wrote to me sharing that his 13 year old nephew Richard has Ewing’s Sarcoma. This is a rare, and extremely challenging former of cancer that he is facing with extraordinary courage and determination. My friend wrote to me asking for words of encouragement that he could pass on to him. I have never met his nephew and in thinking about his request and writing my offering, his nephew, unknowingly, taught me a lesson or two. [To read the letter I wrote to him, go to http://www.leenapatel.net/forum/showthread.php?t=63] Taking Responsibiity - The reason I am writing to you today is because in this quest to rally support from friends and family, my awareness of how we can make a difference in people’s lives without even knowing them directly became heightened. We are so conditioned to thinking that we only affect the person in front of us with our words and actions. Or that we only impact our immediate friends and family members. But the reality is far from the case. It is time for us to wake up. To take responsibility for the well being of others. To recognize that our words and behaviour have the power to inflict magic on others. And whether that be black magic or white magic is our choice. I recently went to see ‘An Inconvenient Truth’. For those of you that are still dithering, I urge you to go. The movie puts into crystal clear focus that it is up to us to instigate change. It is up to us to take responsibility and make a difference. And however we choose to give, whether it be switching to more energy efficient appliances, extending kindness to a stranger, or simply determining to be the best that we can be each day- the best in our work, the best parent, daughter, spouse, we can make a difference. And these small micro actions lead to big changes on a global level. Taking Action - For those of you that have a meditation practice, I ask you to make 3 changes to your practice this week. For those of you that would like to get started or need guidance, call me on 702-425-6162 or write to me at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . Day 1 - Dedicate your practice to living this day as creatively as possible. And then follow through. Do your best in all you do at all times. No more, no less. Day 2 - Dedicate your practice to someone or something in your life. Someone your are close to that needs support or that you would like to deepen your connection to. If it’s appropriate, let them know that you’re in their corner or by their side. Day 3 - Dedicate your practice to Richard and to his good health and well-being. For most of you, Richard is an unknown boy, just like thousands of others in the world. But it is my experience that when we reach out to others (and it’s harder when it’s for someone we don’t know), something shifts not only for them as they receive the healing power of your intention and energy, but we change also. Our heart extends open and compassion flows. And all the seemingly significant annoyances in our day suddenly because less irritating because we know that we are making a difference. I work with one of the world’s gifted singers Celine Dion. Every day I see how she touches lives of people that she has never met. We too can do the same in our own way. Just through the power of our intention. Another observation: when I reach out to others, my problems seem to miraculously resolve themselves! It seems that when we are caught up in our own small world, it is as if we are in a cage and the range of possibilities within our vision are limited. When we step outside of ourselves, our perspective changes and suddenly we see a fresh way of looking at something old. A window has been opened for us. If any of you are moved to write your own words of encouragement for Richard, please send them to me and I will forward them on to his family for them to put up on his website http://www.go-for-the-goal.com/home.html. as uplifting white magic for all who read it. Thank you all for taking the time to read this. If you enjoyed this newsletter, please forward it to 3 people that you know that would enjoy it also. Let’s spread the magic and make a difference-together! Have a blessed day. Namaste, Leena Patel Hi Richard, Im an old friend of your Uncle Randy, or RANDO as I like to call him. Randy and I worked together with your grandfather Dave and Aunt Kim at Epic Records for a few years. We had many good times talking about music and the pop culture of the day. We also spent a good amount of time together on music video shoots, lingering around something called the craft services table, which explains why Rando and I are a little plump around the middle. Hell tell you all about it. Ive worked a number of jobs in my lifetime. When I look back, I dont remember the work, just the people. It is relationships with friends and family that count most in this world. I look at your website and see that you are very fortunate. You are surrounded by loving and supportive people. What they give to you (and what you give back to them) has the power to move mountains and will serve you well in this fight. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and will check in on you at the website from time to time. Best of luck! Doug McVehil PS: I was telling one of the artists I work with about you she signed a cd for you. Heres a scan Ill send you the real one.

Hello Richard! I am a friend of Grandma Ann and Grandpa Dave’s. Ann has kept us up to date with your treatments and long road to recovery. Actually, you and I have been traveling down the same road since I started chemotherapy and radiation therapy for breast cancer the month before you started your treatments. We also have something else in common, and that is our athleticism. I ran the Boston Marathon on April 19th (four weeks after surgery) and started chemo on the 21st. I’m sure that being in good physical condition before beginning a rigorous course of treatment makes a huge difference. I know you have many more weeks to get through and as time goes on you will get more and more tired of the intrusion on your life. Just remember the pot at the end of the rainbow.......and eat lots of tapioca! Positive energy and best wishes to you! Nancy Spetzler Phoenix, Arizona Dear Beth and Rich, My name is Holly Fredericks, I’ve had the honor of knowing Ann & David for several years. You and Richard are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for the work you are doing with the Foundation. You are making a wonderful difference in children’s lives. God Bless, Holly and All of the Outdoor Sports Staff at Canyon Ranch

Dear Richard - I am Kirsten Mulhearn married to Sean Mulhearn and we have 4 boys Tom, Will, Ollie and Sam. We were staying at Kingsmill Williamsburg, Va with the Irwins when we met you. I recall you were heading down to Hilton Head with your cousins and meeting up with the rest of the family. My kids had a great time playing with you and hoped they would meet with you again. And they have with the Go 4 The Goal wristbands. My eldest Tom, who is 9, he has not taken it off from the moment that Jackson Irwin gave it to him back in July. He believes that his strength of the moment is transferred through the bracelet to you which will give you a faster recovery . Every Sunday we go to mass and Tom and I are reminded that it was another week that has passed where you have gained more strength. Over the summer in the states we relocated the family to Singapore and we maintain to wear the Go 4 The Goal wristbands. It means a lot to us as this is our way of supporting you through this difficult stage and being so far away this band makes us feel close to you. We hope to welcome you to our house in Singapore in the near future. Love to all, Kirsten, Sean, Tom, Will, Ollie and our happy ending Sammy!

We call ourselves the “OPP Girls”...OPP standing for the Office of Professional Programs at USP where we all used to work together (now ACI). Though our paths have diverged, we still get together to share friendship & love. This year at our holiday get together we wanted to do something special as a group to give back for all the blessings we have received through our friendship. Please know that our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Your love for your family and other families of children with cancer is an inspiration and we hope that our contributions will help more kids to be able to “Go 4 the Goal!” Sincerely, Patty N., Beth K., Beth P.,Donna S., Liz C., MK M.

Rich, Beth, Richard, and everyone: As we all begin our anticipation of a great 2007, we wanted to pause and let you know that the Jaffs have been with you every day for the past 10 months. We read the web logs every day. The girls wear their bracelets every day. We pray for all of your health and happiness every day. We love you guys, and pray that all of you will have a triumphant 2007. Love, Debra, Michael, Samantha, and Carli